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Getting Organized With Faltering New Year's Resolutions

Our organization columnist takes on the problem of organizing your time, not just your stuff.

We're halfway through February. Have you already thrown aside your New Year's resolutions? In my years as a professional organizer, so often my clients tell me how better they feel after getting organized. 

So, what does that have to do with keeping our New Year's Resolutions?  If you aren't organized, it's that much harder to keep your resolutions.  If you resolved to lose weight, but you haven't cook regularly, have a plan or have grocery lists, it probably hasn’t happened. The likelihood of you achieving your New Year's resolution dwindles the less organized you are, and if you don't have a plan of attack. 

So whatever your resolution is, being organized will help you achieve it. It's even easier if you only choose one resolution at a time. It’s also important to be honest with yourself: set the bar high enough for a challenge, but low enough that you don't drive yourself mad.   

Let's say you have resolved to start exercising this year. First you need to find a gym. But do you need childcare? Do you want to take classes? Do a little research to find the gym that fits your needs. Next, you need to look at your schedule and see where you can make the time to exercise. Just joining a gym doesn't make you exercise.  I actually heard about a gym recently that charges you if you don't go!

Figure out when you can realistically go and workout. Start with one hour one day per week and put it in your calendar.  Better yet, schedule a session with the personal trainer at the gym so you are held accountable or meet a friend there.  It helps to take a tour of the gym and/or meet with someone there to help you get started. 

Make a commitment to yourself to go the same day and time every week.  If you can, schedule some sessions with a personal trainer or make a weekly date with a friend.

Have a plan when you go. Maybe take 30 minutes to do some cardio and 30 minutes to lift some weights. Someone at the gym should be able to help you create a workout plan.  Once you start feeling better about working out at the gym, you might just be able to find more time in your schedule to go more often.

Make sure you have an actual goal. Saying you’re going to start exercising or working out isn’t a goal. You’ll need something a little more tangible,  and you’ll feel a better sense of success when you reach it. Maybe your goal is to lose weight (pick a number), maybe it's to go to the gym three days per week. Whatever it is, write it down and tell as many people as you can about it.   

One of my resolutions this year is to eat healthier. Being organized has helped a lot here. So far, I’ve created a list of the foods and meals my family eats regularly. Then, I ask myself, how can it be made healthier? Is there a veggie at every meal? Are all of the food groups represented?  I'm trying to create a monthly meal plan, putting the “regular” dishes we eat on random days and coming up with new things to try on other days. Then, each month I have a new fruit or vegetable to introduce and maybe even a side dish. With my meals already decided this helps me create my shopping lists. A shopping list is a very important tool for my family to eat healthier. Get what's on your list for that week (or month, however you shop), and stick to it!   

Create a calendar for your meals - not only will you have all of the ingredients you need for the month, but you won't have to wonder what's for dinner.

It's amazing at how being organized doesn't always have to do with your “stuff” but your time and how you plan things as well. 

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Susan S. Berkheimer June 5, 2013 at 05:40 pm
Thanks for the memories of our favorite park, Hershey Park in Hershey, PA. The old wooden rollerRead More coaster was also our very favorite.There was also another favorite, much tamer Love Boat ride that went through a dark tunnel and then went up an incline and you got wet at the end of the ride. Visiting the Hershey Chocolate Factory was also a must on our trip to Hershey. We grew up in nearby York, PA.
Jean Winegardner June 5, 2013 at 05:54 pm
Oooh, that Love Boat ride sounds really fun! We didn't see that one. We definitely had quite anRead More experience there!
Susan S. Berkheimer June 5, 2013 at 06:09 pm
Going to Hershey Park had been a yearly event when we took our own three children to Hershey Park.Read More They loved it there,too. All three of our children are now married and have taken their children to Hershey Park. We have also been to Hershey, PA to the famous Hershey Car Show, where we purchased a 1994 Chrysler LeBaron convertible. I enjoyed reading your article.
Jean Winegardner May 23, 2013 at 01:35 am
Cori, you have no idea how much this helps. I just found out some of the details about the Geo BowlRead More and it sounds like a much better situation for my kiddo than I was originally imagining. I'm going to reach out to the team tonight. I imagine that they will be receptive to my worries. I'm hoping that all of the worst case scenarios are in my head and only in my head, which is probably likely. :) Maybe I'll see you at the Geo Bowl!
vero May 23, 2013 at 02:57 pm
Priming is key. You can also show him video on similar bowls. Pretend at home with family afterRead More finding out more or less how it will go the day of event. Encourage and prime/prep. How wonderful that he has come so far!
Jean Winegardner May 25, 2013 at 02:26 am
Great tips! And actually, thank you very much for the reminder that he has come really far. You'reRead More so right. And I'm so proud of him!
Catherine Newnham May 15, 2013 at 04:44 pm
Yes and yes to everything you say here. The reality of parenthood is simultaneously far far worseRead More and far far better than the fantasy could possibly be. The truth about living with multiple pairs of giant stinky man shoes should be enough to make most of us think twice about filling our houses with male offspring. And when did I sign up to help a hormonal 15 yr old write an impossible essay on a book he's not yet read, due in 3 days? It's lucky we love them so much is all I can say.